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In the age of app-based dating, and hashtag-able everything, relationship struggles can so often be summed up by a single, zeitgeisty buzzword: That would be negging, of course. But you should strive to be.

This happened to me once, on a date I otherwise thought was picture-perfect. We were sharing drinks beneath the sunset, just like in the movies, when the whole thing was torpedoed with one soul-crushing comment.

He was 30, and I was just He was wise and sure of himself, while I had very little idea of who I was or what my future held. Either way, his message was clear: I did think he was interesting. Woul I erred by reaching beyond my station in life? Was I boring and undeserving of wolud dates under an orange sky? It was like imposter syndrome had come for my love life and, suddenly, I felt catastrophically un-special.

Of course he was not literally on higher ground, but the damage had been done. Our disparate leagues had been applied.

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When I told my friends about this, many had similar experiences to share. By referring to an obvious attribute of hers as a side effect or flaw, he established dominance.

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Just like that, she was made to feel like he was the catch. Negging clearly "worked," for him — but is it all still total B. Modern dating has made it easier than ever to find and list data points that quantify, and thqn value on, our romantic prospects.

A little LinkedIn sleuthing clears up questions about wealth and education; Facebook and Instagram fill in the looks and social status gaps. The whole thing is outdated and classist and shallow.

These relationships between two people from unequal social footing seem destined to Find La pointe, and thus we root for them against all odds just grow those legs, Ariel — you can do it!

We want to believe there are levels to everything, and that includes the people we date. Also, it is not sexy.

Reflecting on her own dating life, Cecilia Bowman, the grad student, says she has relied on leagues as a way to grab some power in her past relationships. Joel Caban, a year-old business systems analyst, reflects on this issue: Assumptions follow that [masculine] is better than [feminine], muscular or toned is preferred over fat, etcetera.

Aside from damaging, offensive, and plain rude, this may not even be legal. Remember that day in when the internet found out that Chris Evans and Jenny Slate had started I would like to date someone smarter than me the first timeand the consensus was utter disbelief that a superhero guy would be with, what, a short person with curly hair who is a gifted and hilarious actress?

Based on the social media firestorm that ensued, it became clear that it was unfathomable to many people that someone they find incredibly hot and someone they find regular hot would choose to be together.

Does it smartef how we measure our own self-worth and who we believe we are eligible to date? It only takes talking to someone who believes in leagues a little too much to watch the idea fall apart.

The guy must have money, is what I usually tell myself. Therein lies the fragility of league dating. If you make someone else feel inferior, you protect yourself from the hurt they may cause in the event that they reject you.

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Either way, you're both missing out on the potential connection. Either way, we need to stop. After all, they are arguably the most special people of all.

They can still use this to hurt you, or make you feel inadequate, and that sucks. Smrater, it does have the upside of telling you exactly what kind of person they are — which is someone you definitely don't need to bring into By Kristine Botha Dec 28, 9: Pin FB ellipsis More.

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