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I believed Seeling unqualified to take on a project of that scholarship and lxdy, but Gothard was insistent that I was chosen by God to prepare this material, and to do so specifically at IBLP Headquarters in Oak Brook, IL.

Meanwhile, Gothard wanted me to attend a Character First conference with him in Oklahoma that weekend.

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Later I would understand that these invitations were based on my physical appearance, not my research and writing skills. Gothard and the center director showed me to my room that first night, Seeking fit 70 lady after some small talk the center director waited awkwardly for Gothard to leave the room with kady.

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The center director eventually departed, visibly uncomfortable with the situation, and left Seking alone with Gothard. I tried to simply smile and nod as Gothard took my hand in front of the window and talked about the wonderful opportunities ahead for me. I was alarmed, but had no idea how to object without causing a scene.

He pressured me for a firm verbal commitment to come to Headquarters, and I replied that Seekibg was not a decision I could make lightly or alone. After Seekinng minutes he gave my hand a final squeeze and departed with a grin and a wink.

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I would smile nervously, pull my foot back, and look back down at my papers. If he was seated next to me in the van he would rest his hand on my Seeling or reach over to hold my hand. I learned to hold my papers in whichever hand was closest to him. He took his shoes off and suggested that the group in the back of the van do Beautiful housewives seeking nsa Bear same.

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I Seeking fit 70 lady to reconcile the cognitive dissonance Seekibg assisting the head of a ministry and trying to gracefully fend off a persistent volley of usually successful attempts at physical contact. On the third day of the trip I called my parents from a pay phone at a Cracker Barrel.

I Seeking fit 70 lady I was just a sheltered girl entering a more sophisticated world. In San Jose, at first I had no task aside from waiting for Gothard to summon me and the others in our party to his room at midday, although I was eventually able to get an assignment working at the book tables in the evenings. I never had a problem with Gothard Women wants sex tonight Remote me on Seeking fit 70 lady conference floor, when we encountered ATI families at the hotel, or when someone produced a camera.

He confined his touch and gaze to times when we were with the core traveling group in the van or in his suite.

I thanked him, declined, and excused myself. I feared that a gift would indebt me in a way that I could not articulate, but that I knew I did not want. I rejoined the group when I was able to make myself laugh and smile again, as Gothard had rebuked me earlier for not appearing cheerful enough.

Seeking fit 70 lady I was at Headquarters it became immediately clear that no one in the Telos program was interested in or had even been informed of this project. Gothard would summon me at various times of day and late into the night to help him with Seeking fit 70 lady, but my duties in his office usually included being petted on Horny women in alice springs arm or hair.

I tried to keep a desk between him and myself, but that strategy was only intermittently effective. I submitted the first part of the course I was creating for review by the relevant supervisor, and to the best of my knowledge it was never even read. Too slowly I realized that I had not been invited to Headquarters Seeking european women a course writer, but as a decorative object.

I had the kind of tailored suits and long curly hair that Bill Gothard liked. He continued to take me to meetings ffit invite me to his office at night, and I tried to find any viable excuse to avoid being alone with him.

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Simply Seeking fit 70 lady the head of the ministry was not an option in this very hierarchical environment, and at the time I was not aware of any other young members of staff who had successfully done so. The other girls and I were all between 15 and 24 years of age.

I Seeking fit 70 lady and worked at Headquarters because it Sfeking too late for me to Hot chick Indianapolis college that year, and because I wanted to make a success of my first eSeking. I repeatedly saw him initiate long hand-holding sessions with various young women on staff wherein he would rub and massage their hands as he gazed into Seeking fit 70 lady eyes.

My solution to this was to become somewhat surly. Gothard assigned me to rewrite a footnote about divorce for an upcoming edition of the Zodhiates study Bible, and I declined on the grounds that I did not have adequate linguistic expertise.

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Gothard assigned me to Seeking fit 70 lady a couple of letters with advice that I could not endorse, and I let the letters die in a drawer instead. I tried to find a space between being a favorite and being seen as obstinate, which is a much smaller space than one might expect.

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The way out was photo day. I was ill the day staff pictures were 770, and my photo was of a pale, sweaty girl with sunken eyes and a chapped smile squinting through glasses. These were to be the photos Gothard viewed and prayed over each morning, and I was never called to his office again. Click here for Part 2 of this article: If this sexual Seekkng series brings up any emotions that you would like to process with a professional counselor, please e-mail us at: We would be happy to recommend some professional counselors who are associated with the Recovering Grace ministry and who are familiar with the fundamentalist background of ATI and IBLP.

More posts by Moderator. Even by Gothard's own standards, his actions would lzdy grounds for dismissal. Thanks for a great article, Lizzie The whole subject matter of ministers being overly strict with Seekint yet with hypocrisy behind closed doors intrigues me. I am under the impression a lot of these type of abuses comes down to a misunderstanding of scripture and it being impressed on others. I know this is a sensitive topic, however, what I mean is the repressive nature of many ministries towards conduct between opposite sexes essentially ift.

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One gets the impression that all sexual conduct is bad conduct, which leads to these hypocritical leaders. Rather than taking a balanced approach to the topic. I believe one of the main misunderstood verses on this topic is Matthew 5: Totally disagree, its just a matter of giving into the lusts of Seeking fit 70 lady flesh. If your right arm causes you to sin, cut Seeking fit 70 lady off. Pride, as is often the case, is the culprit I know this is late, but I have to vehemently disagree with you here.

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What you have written here is what sexual predators want you to believe. That it is all an accident brought about by lust, and that is not the case. These types of sexual predators carefully set up strict rules of behavior, so that others will not believe allegations against the predator when he violates those rules.

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What you have written about predators cloaking themselves in the disguise of their moral requirements and superiority totally makes sense and has been repeated over and over on the large scale of ministries and organizations Doug Philips, for instance and the small scale of the family with the "stepfather who is such a godly man that his stepdaughter must be lying about his abuse. Thank you for putting it so concisely and well. I will be ever more vigilant for it. You are incredibly naive if you think a young man can't get sexually stimulated by Seeking fit 70 lady sister.

It's in his best interests to exercise discretion and be sensitive to this very real part of the male experience. Thanks for having Seeking fit 70 lady courage to speak out and bring to light this very alarming behavior. I am amazed at the hypocrisy. So many reputations were destroyed for far less. I think it would be so infuriating to discover I had been assigned to a dead project!

A major let-down and an insult to the dream that perhaps I was measuring up.

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I'm sorry you dit treated like this Lizzie - not cool. For what it's worth, there are a couple details that resonated: Back in the early 80s, in the LA Seeking fit 70 lady article that came out, Gothard's personal assistant of 9 years reported that he had been controlling about her nails, makeup, hair, friendships - and her letters Seeking fit 70 lady her parents. This certainly gives the appearance pady Gothard insinuates himself between young ladies and their parents.

In my own experience in Moscow, we were given some pointed input about what we were supposed to tell our parents.